The only good thing reddit has ever produced
https://www.reddit.com/r/casualiama/comments/65788g/im_3_i_know_everything_ama/?st=1Z141Z3&sh=f48ba715
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one day at work this week i was manning the charcuterie station that’s in the front of the house instead of the back so there’s a little bar around my station where people can sit while they’re waiting for a table and sometimes customers (particularly only men) think that because I am visible to them I am obligated to talk to them or answer their questions like a server or a bus boy might be (which is in fact not the case, I get paid minimum wage and customer service is not part of my job description).
Anyway, I was putting together a bunch of orders– a tartare, frying some calamari, and making two different salads– and a man walks over from his table and sits down and asks me what my name is in French. I pretend like I don’t understand him in hopes that he doesn’t speak english and will go away. He repeats the question once more in french and then eventually in English. I don’t respond, and so he introduces himself and says, “I just bet $50, so you have to give me a kiss in order for me to win”, and I of course say, “no, I don’t really”, and he’s like trying to persuade me, offering me $25, and when I don’t give in he’s like “okay, well you at least have to smile at me, otherwise I’m gonna have to talk to your boss” and so I stop dead in my tracks and give him literally the coldest non-smiling face I could muster until finally a woman from his table comes and drags him back.
This is like the third time this shit has happened to me at work. (Last time two men tried to show me how to shuck an oyster and wouldn’t leave me alone until I eventually just left my station and went to get somebody else to do it).
young adult things: washing your colors with your whites because you don’t care you JUST don’t fucking care
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PUT THE PUSSY IN A
SCARMOPHOGOGHS
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Look at how well you age when you stay in your lane
*cher and you will not have your youth stolen
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Artist Peter Shire’s colorful Los Angeles, California home. This residence features columns left over from discotheques he designed for the 1984 Olympics.
Freestyle, Street-Porter, 1986 📚
Salvaged & scanned by @jpegfantasy 🖨️
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OHMYGOD 😂😂😂😂😂
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She actually took a picture of him and sent it to him lmfaoooo I’m dead 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
Me as a parent
98% sure that’s my old high school
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what are your thoughts on ‘skinny shaming’?
As someone who has been “thin-shamed” I can say it does Not at all go hand in hand with fat shaming. People “thin-shaming” me was mostly verbal harassment- you’re too skinny, you look like a boy, eat a fucking cheeseburger, what’s wrong with you why don’t you like food?
But guess what, I don’t have a problem finding clothes that fit me. There aren’t companies that refuse to make clothes for my size. There is no shortage of messages telling me that despite the harassment of some, I am still beautiful and ideal even if I’m unhealthy. Despite being thin-shamed, I still PANICKED when I started a medicine that made me gain weight, and I had to really analyze that, because no matter what my culture will still say that “fat is unideal” “fat is bad” and “honestly its fine to starve yourself / but shameful and bad to overeat.”
So “thin-shaming” is shitty because it’s shitty to be judged and have people make assumptions about you. But Fat-shaming is institutional, it’s not just individuals harassment and judgement, it’s potential jobs, it’s clothing companies, it’s media and advertisement, all telling you you’re bad as you are. Like what a way shittier thing.
This is the difference.
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